Enough that He died for you–while you were His enemy! That's real love and there is no greater love than that! But the calvinist's god decided before you or I existed, that he would make some for eternal damnation and some for salvation, that's the love of those who teach unconditional election to salvation. This is not what the Bible teaches, it makes God a liar and removes the trustworthiness of the Scriptures for contradictions and deception.